Ok, so I've been pretty much going insane lately, because I like this girl, I want to be with her, but she has a b.f. Y'all should know that she is also my ex from High School. I was 18, she was 17 when we broke up. I'm now 24, and she's 23. So time has passed. Anyways, we started talking again, and all of these old feelings came rushing back for the both of us. Now up till last night she says that her boyfriend has been possessive, and controlling every time she talks to someone new, this includes her female friends. Well apparently it's gotten worse when we started talking again and that resulted to her telling him on Saturday Night that he used his last "strike" and that she is now going to reevaluate this relationship, her feelings for him, and also to make sure her feelings for me are true and not just one of those "What could've happened?" kinda deal.
ANYWAYS, last night, the guy was completely different. Hell he even admitted to being possessive, and controlling and apologizing. They actually got along for a change last night. I'm starting to think that I may never get another chance with her, even though she told me that I will get another chance (I do have to keep in mind she said this when he was driving her up the wall). Yes we have actually started talking about getting back together (Yea I know I know...dangerous water ye be treading) and she acts like she still has deep feelings for me, she actually said that her feelings for me are stronger than her feelings for anybody else. But after last night, I don't know. Yes it was just one day, but those days add up into weeks, into months, and into years. Of course She doesn't think the change is permanent, she says to "give it a week or a few days." Which probably means he's done this before and always reverted back to his old ways. I dunno, they've been together for four years and that along makes me think that they won't break up. It's like a man telling his mistress that he'll divorce his wife to be with her, but he never does, and the mistress gets burned.
Yea, great thought process I have huh? Anyways, I want to know what you guys think, thanks.
Also, The Merovingian had it right when he said this, It is remarkable how similar the pattern of love is to the pattern of insanity.
ANYWAYS, last night, the guy was completely different. Hell he even admitted to being possessive, and controlling and apologizing. They actually got along for a change last night. I'm starting to think that I may never get another chance with her, even though she told me that I will get another chance (I do have to keep in mind she said this when he was driving her up the wall). Yes we have actually started talking about getting back together (Yea I know I know...dangerous water ye be treading) and she acts like she still has deep feelings for me, she actually said that her feelings for me are stronger than her feelings for anybody else. But after last night, I don't know. Yes it was just one day, but those days add up into weeks, into months, and into years. Of course She doesn't think the change is permanent, she says to "give it a week or a few days." Which probably means he's done this before and always reverted back to his old ways. I dunno, they've been together for four years and that along makes me think that they won't break up. It's like a man telling his mistress that he'll divorce his wife to be with her, but he never does, and the mistress gets burned.
Yea, great thought process I have huh? Anyways, I want to know what you guys think, thanks.
Also, The Merovingian had it right when he said this, It is remarkable how similar the pattern of love is to the pattern of insanity.
