Really? I've never run into that personally, but that just sucks. I've always operated on the knowledge that everything that is said in the movies becomes a part of Zion's history in the Archive. Operators can record what you are saying as long as they have direct access to your feed, Neo probably informed Morpheus later about what happened with the Architect, who then told Zion, yada yada yada. That's how I've always done things.
I think if someone questions you for quoting people they claim you never knew, they're taking things a bit too seriously. Roleplay how you want, with whom you want. If they don't like it, there's plenty others out there. Just...enough with the lesbian vampires.

